Sunday, December 12, 2010

Love is a question mark.

Most teenagers like me already experienced love. I know that because my friends has but not me. Not 'til I graduate from college. I will do all my best to block that kind of distraction. It's better for Social Networking site and games to distract me but love? A resounding NO. In our world today, there are a lot of teenagers who's becoming pregnant and are facing their doom. That doom started with love, love started with a crush. They don't study anymore because they have to mother a child. Being a mother is not a joke, it's not that easy like you play in the game The Sims. Even in The Sims, it's also hard to take care a baby. You need to wake up to feed them in the middle of night and cradle them to let them fall asleep. Not to mention the money you need to spend for a baby. Teenagers who are mothers in a young age clearly doesn't have an income to buy the things a baby needs. Plus the regular check-up and immunizations of a baby is a must and it costs a lot. It's also sad to say that in our country, young teens that are working for extra money is being look down to. Not like in America, it's a normal stuff to do and they accept it. No discrimination. Being a young mother in this country is just hard. Yes, you might say that love do not always lead to pregnancy but I say, eventually it will. You will never guess unless you have a boyfriend that cares about both of your futures, really cares about you and truly loves you. He'll know the best for both of you if he's in the right mind. So yeah. Love is a question mark for me. It's not that I have no idea about what it is. I know a lot about that. I am fully aware of what can it do to a person. It can make you insane and really insane when a guy breaks your heart. I agree, it is a great feeling but I know it also can be the worst feeling in the world. So I'm weighing its pros and cons and decided it's still a question in my life. Love will define its meaning when I'm in the right age, when it's the right time and it is the right place. Right now, I'm just up to reading lovely quotes about love and appreciating it. Some of those quotes are not really reality though, unless as I said you found your Mr. 100% Right. I won't go beyond the quotes. For me, those are just words that ticks someone's fantasy for now. Until then, who knows?

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